martial arts aikido After a breakup, you might not understand why he broke up with you. But you know your purpose in so desperate to get him back. It is because you love him and think you might have lost him forever. Your ex boyfriend has gotten himself from your life and you also want him back. This will cause one to panic and beg him to go back. When that happens, he has pushed your emotional hot buttons. But, he's got emotional hot buttons too of course, if you push them the correct way, every time they visit him or her boyfriend beg for the love.