David proved himself to get among the anointed warriors of Israel. He would not fight as part of his own might but with the potency of the Spirit. ?The Philistine commanders continued to travel out to battle, and as frequently they did, David met with additional success than the all Saul?s officers, and his name became well known? (I Sam. 18:30, NIV). Narcissists usually participate in an action called "gaslighting". Gaslighting is really a kind of emotional abuse where the abuser manipulates situations repeatedly to trick the victim into distrusting his personal memory and perceptions. It is an insidious kind of abuse plus it makes victims question the instincts that they have counted on their whole lives, driving them to unclear about anything. Gaslighting makes it more than likely that victims will believe whatever their abusers inform them regardless as to their particular connection with the problem. It often precedes other types of emotional and physical abuse because the victim of gaslighting is a lot more prone to remain in other abusive situations at the same time.