Traditional treatment programs, especially Alcoholics Anonymous, profess that being of service to others is really a critical element of addiction recovery. And, I would accept that perspective. However, everyone?s true-life purpose is unique and necessarily have to do with helping others overcome alcoholism. In fact, 90% of the time, the true life function of an addicted person has nothing related to addiction recovery. Providing a blanket rule, like AA does, not just leads people astray, nonetheless it?s also counterproductive because helping others with the exact same affliction usually perpetuates victimization. Get Organized ? Before throwing a supper party, plan it ahead of time so the people attending can also enjoy it towards the fullest. Start your dinner party planning by questioning a few elementary questions that will help get organized, like: What is the intent behind the party? Who is it for? What month are you currently throwing the party in? (This will help you decide on a theme) What will function as the theme from the party? What to serve in the party? After finding specific solutions to these sets of questions, go forward to the next list of party ideas.