With this because they authorized the Sikh Army to cross the Sutlej in a very headlong confrontation using the English. Ranjit had signed a treaty with all the British that forbade him to cross the Sutlej River, but this became broken. The English were however preparing for that conflict and they had spies inside Lahore Durbar, with even the Prime Minister, the grandfather of the present Kashmir ruler( Now deposed) Karan Singh being in league with them and plotting the defeat in the Sikh Army. This service what food was in return for him to be made the Maharajah of Jammu and Kashmir. The general method in which people persuade the other person is dependant on a variety of factors: Narcissists usually participate in an activity called "gaslighting". Gaslighting is really a form of emotional abuse in which the abuser manipulates situations repeatedly to trick the victim into distrusting his very own memory and perceptions. It is an insidious type of abuse and it makes victims question the very instincts that they have counted on their whole lives, which makes them unsure of anything. Gaslighting helps it be likely that victims will believe whatever their abusers tell them regardless about their unique experience with your situation. It often precedes other types of emotional and physical abuse as the victim of gaslighting is a bit more likely to be in other abusive situations at the same time.