1. The attractiveness of the person If only computer commands like "ctrl-alt-del" or "ctrl-z" can be applied to human life, then getting back together together with your ex is effortless and nobody will dare ask themselves on the best way to undo being dumped. But as everyone understands, life doesn't work doing this. When being dumped already happened, both of you might be struggling to get away from the painful path towards recovery. I've a weight problem all my life. My parents bought me "huskies" while I would grammar school. I wasn't a very active kid. My parents always provided 3 good meals personally daily. School lunches were actually nutritious in those days. They weren't anything like they are now with pizza, tacos, hamburgers, sausages, fried potatoes, sweet sodas and all forms of chips and desserts. I hear french fries would be the main course especially with school girls. Today's kids do not have the opportunity.