world arts If you are going to text he or she, timing is everything. Do it too soon and you might very well kill any chances of reconciliation. It may put pressure on him and pressure will not endear one to a person. He may feel guilt. If you want an ex back, causing him to feel negative feeling won't do it. It's best to wait after a separation to text him and I don't mean a day or two. I mean weeks. Give your emotions with his fantastic time and energy to relax. Texting him when emotions are high is only going to complicate matters. The woodwind section will glare on the drummers. The brass section sticks their noses via a flight at them. And then they move out for the field one day without the drum line and do you know what? No one can march to the life of them. No one can keep their steps. Lines are squiggling forward and backward. Formations that were once crisp and defined are sluggish and bloated looking. That perfectly formed capital 'O' the band worked so hard on yesterday now resembles a half-hearted 'U'. What is wrong with everybody?