stripe nail art If you are going to text he or she, timing is everything. Do it too soon and you might very well kill any chances of reconciliation. It may put pressure on him and pressure will not endear one to a person. He may feel guilt. If you want an ex back, causing him to feel negative feeling won't do it. It's best to wait after a separation to text him and I don't mean a day or two. I mean weeks. Give your emotions with his fantastic time and energy to relax. Texting him when emotions are high is only going to complicate matters.